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Ramona asked me, “You seem like you're full of peace, love & happiness every time I see you? Don’t you ever just feel tired and cranky? Don't you ever just wake up on the wrong side of the bed?” My reply: 'Definitely! Now, I do I TRY to focus on creating good-feeling days, but, I have my cranky days too. In fact, let me tell you about one Christmas I'd like to forget...'
Can We Have a Do-Over?
A Christmas I'd Like to Forget...
My finger throbbed like someone was beating it with stick. My teeth chattered - like one of those wind-up false teeth toys. I raced into the house to escape the cut-you-to-the-bone 20 below wind chill.
I didn’t even take off my coat as I walked straight to the bar. My brother-in-law Tom was there with a knowing look. He handed me a glass of wine and we exchanged our annual banter. 'How’s going it Tom?” In his usual glib and funny way Tom shared, “Oh I’m just doing what I’m told to do Suzie.” I toasted Tom and boisterously announced our arrival, “Merry Christmas Everybody! Peace, love & happiness to all!”
It was Christmas Day 2005 and we were at my sister-in-law's house in Carmel, Indiana. I was not in the Christmas spirit, in fact - I was very cranky!
'He who has not Christmas in his heart
will never find it under a tree.'
Roy L. Smith
Ouch!!
I’d slammed my finger in the car door that morning at Jeff’s parent’s house. The pain in my finger matched my mood perfectly! Internally I felt bruised and empty. Externally I felt tired and banged up.
I proceeded to drank too much wine and eat too much food. I never got around to feeling much better that day. I didn’t feel ANYTHING remotely close to peace, love & happiness! Thank goodness Jeff’s family has known me since 1993, and they love me, or I’m sure they'd never invite me back! Back home I nursed my finger and the cold I'd caught.
How did I get here? Where along the way had I “lost” my ‘I want to feel peace, love & happiness’ wake up eager direction? How had I ended up so cranky at Christmas?
My 'They Need Me' Decisions That Led to A Cranky Christmas!
Weeks later I was back home. Rested and physically feel better, I soon made my way back to a more 'sunny, peace, love & happiness' feeling-place. I realized that the decisions I'd made leading up to our Indiana Christmas trip that year had contributed to my cranky holiday mood.
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- I’d booked a training class in Pittsburgh in mid-December. I hate the cold and really didn’t want to do it, but THEY NEEDED ME then, so I agreed to their schedule.
- I took on additional assessment business. It was last minute, rushed and I really didn't have the time, but THEY NEEDED ME and my help.
- I felt guilty because we weren’t going to S.C. at Christmas (where my folks live), so we squeezed in a trip over there.THEY NEEDED ME and to see us.
- I’d agreed to a dinner party with retired family friends. They depend on us and were anxious to see us for the holidays. THEY NEEDED US to visit.
- We went to three different Christmas parties. They expected us to be there, and we felt obligated to go. THEY NEEDED US to be there.
I could add more to my, ‘How I Lost my Peace, Love & Happiness Self and Created a Cranky Christmas Mood in 2005’ list, but I think you probably get the point.
'There is no ideal Christmas; only the one Christmas
you decide to make as a reflection of your
values, desires, affections, traditions.'
Bill McKibben
Bottom Line: I’d stopped taking stock of what was best for me and my life as I tried to please, soothe, help and serve everyone else. And, in my desire to be all things to everyone - I ended up not being emotionally or energetically available to anyone! All that ‘yes’ing’ led to a burned out I-have-nothing-left-to-give feeling. All of which led to a perfect collision for a throbbing finger from a slammed car door, a cold, too much wine, fattening food and lots of sulking!!
Y.E.S. - Three Positive Attitude Tips for More Peace, Love & Happiness
I’m happy to report that I’ve not had another cranky 'I hate Christmas' since. I even like Christmas again! Here are three simple, but not easy, tips that help me create more peace, love & happiness in my life. I find that they work well at work and at home. Remember these three actions with the acronym: Y.E.S.
- Y-Say yes to, embrace, acknowledge, express and write about how you REALLY feel.Don't pitch a tent and stay there, but be honest with yourself. Your honesty will help you move out of your 'mood' - making it easier to make decisions about what you choose to do.
Any time you're eating, drinking or doing anything too much, the origins of your actions can almost always be found in unacknowledged and unexpressed feelings.I was exhausted and overwhelmed which I didn't acknowledge. I just kept slapping on my happy face - offering false, but positive, thoughts and words.
If I had acknowledged how I REALLY felt, if I'd been more honest with myself, I could have made new decisions along the way before I landed in the cranky Christmas ditch. Acknowledging the truth, saying YES to how you really feel, makes you better able to start anew.
YES MANTRA: “I am where I am, and where I am is really good. Knowing where I really am, in this moment, helps me get to where I really want to go.”
- Kindle Version
- E-Empower Yourself. Decide to Be Deliberate About What You Say Yes To... The only person you can control is yourself. When you decide that you're in charge of what you say yes to, and how you spend your time, it's easier to begin makingmore decisions that bring peace, love & happiness into your life.
YES MANTRA: “I am responsible for how my day-to-day life feels. That means I must make more deliberate decisions about how use my my time.”
- S- Be Selfish. Remember Doing What Feels Good IS Love. If you unconsciously say yes to things just to please others, while ignoring what pleases you, you'll eventually feel empty, tired and cranky. Which often leads to eating and drinking too much.
If you're selfish enough to tune into what YOU NEED - to feel and live with peace, love & happiness, then you'll be walking around FULL of love and life. And when you feel that way, you have MORE to give others, not less. You must decide that feeling good and happy is worth something.
YES MANTRA: 'The best gift I can give others is my own peace, love & happiness. I can't give it, if I don't have it.'
'Christmas, children, is not a date. It is a state of mind.'
Mary Ellen Chase
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Am I the only one who's lost their joy at Christmas? Have you struggled in this area too? What kinds of things do you do to keep joy in your life during the holidays? Have you discovered what works and what doesn't?
What do you think about being more selfish? Do you agree or disagree with my formula? Do you have any tips that would benefit others who are suffering stress over the holidays?
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Ramona asked me, “You seem like you're full of peace, love & happiness every time I see you? Don’t you ever just feel tired and cranky? Don't you ever just wake up on the wrong side of the bed?” My reply: 'Definitely! Now, I do I TRY to focus on creating good-feeling days, but, I have my cranky days too. In fact, let me tell you about one Christmas I'd like to forget...'
Can We Have a Do-Over?
A Christmas I'd Like to Forget...
My finger throbbed like someone was beating it with stick. My teeth chattered - like one of those wind-up false teeth toys. I raced into the house to escape the cut-you-to-the-bone 20 below wind chill.
I didn’t even take off my coat as I walked straight to the bar. My brother-in-law Tom was there with a knowing look. He handed me a glass of wine and we exchanged our annual banter. 'How’s going it Tom?” In his usual glib and funny way Tom shared, “Oh I’m just doing what I’m told to do Suzie.” I toasted Tom and boisterously announced our arrival, “Merry Christmas Everybody! Peace, love & happiness to all!”
It was Christmas Day 2005 and we were at my sister-in-law's house in Carmel, Indiana. I was not in the Christmas spirit, in fact - I was very cranky!
'He who has not Christmas in his heart
will never find it under a tree.'
Roy L. Smith
Ouch!!
I’d slammed my finger in the car door that morning at Jeff’s parent’s house. The pain in my finger matched my mood perfectly! Internally I felt bruised and empty. Externally I felt tired and banged up.
I proceeded to drank too much wine and eat too much food. I never got around to feeling much better that day. I didn’t feel ANYTHING remotely close to peace, love & happiness! Thank goodness Jeff’s family has known me since 1993, and they love me, or I’m sure they'd never invite me back! Back home I nursed my finger and the cold I'd caught.
How did I get here? Where along the way had I “lost” my ‘I want to feel peace, love & happiness’ wake up eager direction? How had I ended up so cranky at Christmas?
My 'They Need Me' Decisions That Led to A Cranky Christmas!
Weeks later I was back home. Rested and physically feel better, I soon made my way back to a more 'sunny, peace, love & happiness' feeling-place. I realized that the decisions I'd made leading up to our Indiana Christmas trip that year had contributed to my cranky holiday mood.
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- I’d booked a training class in Pittsburgh in mid-December. I hate the cold and really didn’t want to do it, but THEY NEEDED ME then, so I agreed to their schedule.
- I took on additional assessment business. It was last minute, rushed and I really didn't have the time, but THEY NEEDED ME and my help.
- I felt guilty because we weren’t going to S.C. at Christmas (where my folks live), so we squeezed in a trip over there.THEY NEEDED ME and to see us.
- I’d agreed to a dinner party with retired family friends. They depend on us and were anxious to see us for the holidays. THEY NEEDED US to visit.
- We went to three different Christmas parties. They expected us to be there, and we felt obligated to go. THEY NEEDED US to be there.
I could add more to my, ‘How I Lost my Peace, Love & Happiness Self and Created a Cranky Christmas Mood in 2005’ list, but I think you probably get the point.
'There is no ideal Christmas; only the one Christmas
you decide to make as a reflection of your
values, desires, affections, traditions.'
Bill McKibben
Bottom Line: I’d stopped taking stock of what was best for me and my life as I tried to please, soothe, help and serve everyone else. And, in my desire to be all things to everyone - I ended up not being emotionally or energetically available to anyone! All that ‘yes’ing’ led to a burned out I-have-nothing-left-to-give feeling. All of which led to a perfect collision for a throbbing finger from a slammed car door, a cold, too much wine, fattening food and lots of sulking!!
Y.E.S. - Three Positive Attitude Tips for More Peace, Love & Happiness
I’m happy to report that I’ve not had another cranky 'I hate Christmas' since. I even like Christmas again! Here are three simple, but not easy, tips that help me create more peace, love & happiness in my life. I find that they work well at work and at home. Remember these three actions with the acronym: Y.E.S.
- Y-Say yes to, embrace, acknowledge, express and write about how you REALLY feel.Don't pitch a tent and stay there, but be honest with yourself. Your honesty will help you move out of your 'mood' - making it easier to make decisions about what you choose to do.
Any time you're eating, drinking or doing anything too much, the origins of your actions can almost always be found in unacknowledged and unexpressed feelings.I was exhausted and overwhelmed which I didn't acknowledge. I just kept slapping on my happy face - offering false, but positive, thoughts and words.
If I had acknowledged how I REALLY felt, if I'd been more honest with myself, I could have made new decisions along the way before I landed in the cranky Christmas ditch. Acknowledging the truth, saying YES to how you really feel, makes you better able to start anew.
YES MANTRA: “I am where I am, and where I am is really good. Knowing where I really am, in this moment, helps me get to where I really want to go.”
- Kindle Version
- E-Empower Yourself. Decide to Be Deliberate About What You Say Yes To... The only person you can control is yourself. When you decide that you're in charge of what you say yes to, and how you spend your time, it's easier to begin makingmore decisions that bring peace, love & happiness into your life.
YES MANTRA: “I am responsible for how my day-to-day life feels. That means I must make more deliberate decisions about how use my my time.”
- S- Be Selfish. Remember Doing What Feels Good IS Love. If you unconsciously say yes to things just to please others, while ignoring what pleases you, you'll eventually feel empty, tired and cranky. Which often leads to eating and drinking too much.
If you're selfish enough to tune into what YOU NEED - to feel and live with peace, love & happiness, then you'll be walking around FULL of love and life. And when you feel that way, you have MORE to give others, not less. You must decide that feeling good and happy is worth something.
YES MANTRA: 'The best gift I can give others is my own peace, love & happiness. I can't give it, if I don't have it.'
'Christmas, children, is not a date. It is a state of mind.'
Mary Ellen Chase
120 Stress Management Strategies and
Daily Tips for Developing This Area.
Click Here.
Your Cranky Christmas Stories, Comments, Insights and Tips...
Am I the only one who's lost their joy at Christmas? Have you struggled in this area too? What kinds of things do you do to keep joy in your life during the holidays? Have you discovered what works and what doesn't?
What do you think about being more selfish? Do you agree or disagree with my formula? Do you have any tips that would benefit others who are suffering stress over the holidays?
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Help serve a group like CARITAS by serving them meals, playing games with them, or just plain out swapping stories. Groups like these also always need …
Iron Out the Kinks By... Motivation Pearls Not rated yet
One of three best ways I know to keep from being kranky over the holidays are to focus on bringing joy into the lives of others - you don't have to go …
News Puts It In Perspective for Me Not rated yet
Great question. I have always been a great believer in watching the news, not only for information, but also to help me put things in perspective. By watching …
Four Days - The M agic Number - Trust Me... Not rated yet
The New York Times had a great article that would bode well to this post a few years back. I can't recall the exact title, or all the content, but the …
My Top Three Tips... Not rated yet
1) pick names 2) shop online 3) remember the meaning of the holiday Jennifer Johnson Director of Marketing and Recruiting
Fitness Expert: DON'T Start Now... Not rated yet
1) Don't start a diet or exercise program during the holidays because of guilt over NOT doing so the rest of the year. If you can't get to the gym in February …
Get Clear Not rated yet
My top tip is to focus on what the holiday is really about - is it about the perfect presents, food, decorations, etc. or is it about being with family, …
Keep the Picture... Not rated yet
Yes, doing someone for someone else is a must, and also keeping expectations realistic. If you picture what you don't want to happen at Christmas (ie …
Music and Early Shopping Not rated yet
1. Always have my favorite Christmas CD playing in the car, at home or at work. 2. Shop for Christmas gifts in August, before all the mad house at the …
Focus on the Fun Parts Not rated yet
My first tip is to SIMPLIFY! The thought of sending out holiday cards overwhelms me... so I haven't done it in years. I decorated my house, but didn't …
Connect - Eye Contact, Laughter & More Laughter.... Not rated yet
1. Greet everyone you meet warmly (look them in the eye, give a two handed hand-shake, smile and let them know how good it is to see them and tell them …
It's Impossible to Have A Cranky Christmas When You... Not rated yet
It's impossible to have a cranky Christmas when you: 1. SIMPLIFY - don't put too much pressure on yourself to get everything 'perfect'. sometimes simpler …
Return HOME to Your Heart... Not rated yet
1.make Christmas was it is - entirely in your heart Christmas is about God and Love about returning HOME 2. if single - then have a Christmas just …
Make a Christmas for Someone Else... Not rated yet
1. Get the shopping and shipping done early. 2. See or talk to friends and family. 3. Adopt a family to make a Christmas for someone else. Mary Marvin …
Health, Love and Laugh Not rated yet
1. Realize that nothing is more important than your health. Why stress over anything petty? (It's almost always petty) 2. Express love and kindness where …
Remember it Ain't about You, Me or Us. Not rated yet
1. Give Thanks for Your Blessings ( yes we all Do have some ) 2. Consume less and Participate in Song, Music 3. Remember it Ain't about You, Me or Us. …
I Must Remind Myself... Not rated yet
At Christmas I must remind myself that relationships are more important than stuff. Spending time with people is more important than shopping for them. …
Voila! Not rated yet
I think a lot has to do with expectations... we go in to the Christmas season expecting problems with certain people, and voila! We get them! I hear …
Therapy for Two for $1... Not rated yet
Where can you get therapy for two people for $1? Whenever I get a little down, I think about someone that I haven't spoken to in a while, log into my SendOut …
Do Not Force Festive Not rated yet
I think the biggest problem with Christmas stress is people force themselves to be all festive. I know this was always the issue at home. Now, in my own …
Relationship Choices and Awareness Not rated yet
My top three tips are as follows: 1. Remember you can't control anyone else's behavior, just your own...and you always have the choice to walk away from …
Not a Nuclear Arms Race! Not rated yet
1. Send actual Christmas cards, with hand-written notes, rather than newsletters, e-cards, etc. Mail with actual handwriting just seems so much more special, …
Basic Hours, Phone Calls, Alert Clients Not rated yet
Ok, here is how I attempt to keep my holidays stress free: 1- Stick to a basic 8-10 hour day and not talk myself into excessive long hours or weekends. …
Go to the Spa! Not rated yet
To help deal with the last few stress-filled weeks, a colleague of mine has sent invitations to a spa for a pampering session. Essentially, we'll get …
Upromise, Exercise & Vege Days Not rated yet
1.) Spend money via systems that pay you for shopping and dining. A former client company of mine has a great system for this - especially if you have …
Needful & Useful Gifts-First Aid Kits Not rated yet
Craig, As usual, I find myself in agreement with you. I (and my family) discovered a few years ago that the celebration of the nativity need not be an …
Just Help Someone for a Day Not rated yet
I offer something hopeful....forget the agendas, special interest groups and fear that you have lost count of your current carbon foot print and just help …
Am I Just a Scrooge? Not rated yet
I cannot add to the cranky stories (driving a car that was too wide down an alleyway; having just a little too much scotch before dinner; getting out the …
Minimize Not rated yet
Great topic, Suzie! For many of us, this season can be dreaded, because of the additional work involved in preparing for the holiday. My tip is to minimize …
Caroling & Giving & Gratitude Not rated yet
The best time that I ever had for Christmas was when a group of men from the organization that I belong to went around Christmas caroling to shut ins and …
Nurture Self and Simplify Not rated yet
My top tips 1. Simplicity - Love, presence and laughter Focus on the people you love and care about. Not the decor, gifts and activities. Let being 'present' …
Simplify, Rest and Just Two Answers... Not rated yet
My top three tips: 1. Keep it simple -Buy only what you can afford... for yourself and people you love. The rest is not necessary. Food - The tummy will …
Think: Rest, Internet Shipping and Donations Not rated yet
My top tip is get enough rest. Stress is less if you aren't tired already! Use the internet for gifting - buy there, get coupon codes for free shipping, …
Simplify, Prioritize and Take Time for You Not rated yet
My top three tips: 1. Simplify your plans and decor. Less is best. I do less and enjoy it that much more. 2. Stop buying gifts for everyone you know. …
Repeat the Fun Stuff Not rated yet
Remember the stuff that has brought you joy in season's past and remember to incorporate it this year if it still feels right and good. For instance, …
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